Skills developed in unstructured, self-directed play

Restraint Resiliency Collaborating Self-reliance Fairness Leadership How to be the follower Body-language Verbal cues Non-verbal cues Sharing Negotiating Problem solving Assertiveness Boundary setting Self-control Goal setting Winning How to lose Risk taking Conflict resolution Empathy Compassion Imaginative play Independence Behavior control Reasoning skills Focus Creativity

Bonus

Independent play time: more quiet grown-up time

More sleep for them: more quiet grown-up time

More conversations with them: something to treasure when they are challenging teens

“Most people need consistency more than they need intensity.  Intensity makes a good story.  Consistency makes progress. “

– James Clear, Atomic Habits